A post by Hannah Fasnacht
«Wie geht’s?» fragte die Trauer die Hoffnung.
«Ich bin etwas traurig», sagte die Hoffnung.
«Hoffentlich», sagte die Trauer.
—Franz Hohler
“How are you?” Sadness asked Hope.
“I’m a little sad”, Hope said.
“I would hope so”, said Sadness.
[my translation]
Grief is typically directed at or caused by an actual loss: the death of a person, the end of a relationship, the removal of a certain form of security, for example due to a war, the deprivation of abilities and things once possessed. One could call this kind of grief “past-oriented” and “directed at actual objects”. Mostly, grief is understood as a reaction to a loss – paradigmatically, the loss of someone close to us (Cholbi 2021; Ratcliffe 2020).
Grief seems to be a complex thing. It is not just sadness; rather, it is arguably a process with different emotions which can co-exist, contradict each other, shift into one another, have “stages” (Kübler-Ross 1969) or come in waves.
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